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Facing divorce, child custody, and property division matters can be overwhelming. Trust our North Carolina family law attorneys to guide you with integrity, compassion, and respect.







North Carolina Family Law Lawyers

No one ever enters a marriage expecting a day when it could all end. If it’s happening to you, we at Caulder & Valentine Law Firm, PLLC, want to be your reliable advocates in this process. Our family law practice can advise you of your legal rights, help you make reasoned decisions, and lead you through what could be the most difficult moments of your life.
Whether your situation involves a high net worth divorce, child custody, spousal support, or a complex division of property and assets, our attorneys have the experience and care that matters. We know how to work diligently through sensitive, emotionally charged issues and strive to ensure that each case receives the attention it deserves.
When you need a family law attorney in Shelby, Gastonia, or Lincolnton, turn to Caulder & Valentine. Let our solutions-focused approach and legal experience be your rock in your family’s time of need.
What Our Clients Say
Jonathan did an amazing job! He was able to get my case handled very quickly and very professionally! I can’t thank him enough for the outcome and appreciate the time he took to make sure everything was done properly.
- Jeff W
Mr. Valentine did an amazing job with helping me get custody of my nieces and nephew. He was always there when I was unsure or had any questions and was quick to let me know everything was going to work out. I am very grateful for the care and support he showed. I highly recommend him for any custody issues anyone may have. Thank you so much.
- Crystal Dye
Cauder and Valentine Law Firm was the most caring firm. I wanted to give you my sincere thanks once again for your incredible determination and caring during my case. This firm and staff went above and beyond keeping me informed and the staff was the greatest in updating me, this saved me on my insurance going up and I will never forget you all for your services meant to me. Again thank you for your love and support throughout this process.
- D.Duty
I received great services from Attorney Jonathan Kidd and the staff at Caulder and Valentine Law Firm. Definitely recommend to anyone looking for an experienced professional to help with legal matters.
- Brianna R
Jonathan Kidd, is very knowledgeable,working with this law firm was awesome! I would hardly recommend anyone who's looking for a honest,Reliable,and dependable.Law firm. This is the one! Thank you so much, Mr. Kidd for helping me and my wife solve our issue.
- Littlejohnsonsitecarwash Littlejohn

Why Hire a Family Law Attorney?
Whether you want to file for divorce, have received a divorce notice from your spouse, or are seeking custody of your children, family law matters are the most personal and complex things you could face.
You want to be sure that property division, valuation of pensions, stock options, and goodwill arising from business activities are handled fairly. Should you be trapped in a violent relationship, your life and your children’s lives need to be protected. Alternatively, if you’re considering adoption or thinking about putting a prenuptial agreement in place before entering marriage, dense paperwork and administrative blockades abound.
Our lawyers are ready to counsel, negotiate, and, if necessary, fight in court on your behalf to obtain the best result possible. With a divorce, property division, and child custody lawyer from Caulder & Valentine on your side, you can be confident that they will:
- Make sure all legal documents you’ve signed can stand up in court
- Review all legal options available to you and recommend the one(s) that would make the most sense for your circumstances
- Assess the financial and tax implications of your family law
- Work to resolve your family law matter in the most efficient way
- Handle temporary restraining orders, injunctions, hearings, and settlement conferences
- Fight to decrease the amount of red tape often associated with family law
- Mounting the strongest possible legal challenge, such as litigation and appeals
Let an experienced family law attorney from our law practice fully explain your legal options and remedies. Contact us today for a consultation and case review.
Our Family Law Practice Areas
Divorce
Child Custody and Visitation
Asset and Property Division
Child Support
Spousal Support/Alimony
Domestic Violence Protection
Prenuptial Agreements
Post-Judgment Modifications
Adoption
Guardianship
Our Promise to You
Clients are often fearful when they come to us for a family law matter. Their children, finances, future, and everything they’ve ever worked for hang in the balance. Our lawyers empathize with their position and are genuinely concerned for their well-being. This is why we pledge to:
- Always treat you with respect and kindness
- Take the time to listen to you and answer every question
- Explain your legal options in plain, simple language
- Be up front and ethical about our attorney fees and costs
- Be responsive and return messages when you call us
- Take immediate measures to protect you, your children, and your finances
- Put your needs first when developing legal strategies for your case
- Keep you informed of, and consult to get your approval for, any major developments
If you decide to hire us as your attorneys, you can expect us to employ these high standards throughout your case.
ABOUT US
Meet Our Lawyers
Blake Caulder
Attorney
Josh Valentine
Attorney
Jonathan Kidd
Attorney
Here for You During Your Family’s Most Pressing Moments
When it comes to the most important things in your life — your family and your well-being — experience and legal savvy matter. At Caulder & Valentine, we know how to determine and execute the most effective family law strategies, always with a focus on our clients’ rights and best interests.
Our law firm has offices in Shelby, Gastonia, and Lincolnton, and we serve families and individuals in Cleveland, Gaston, and Lincoln counties. Contact us today to schedule a consultation with a divorce lawyer who takes your situation as seriously as you do.

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